Send help please :')

Fluorite_Draws 3/22/2023 08:12 pm 258

So uh some kid put on their profile they like me, but uhh I'm 15 and this kid is 13 so it's super weird, because I'm turning 16 this year and like help. Advice on what to do I really don't want to be mean to this kid, but like that's just a bit ehhh no since I'm almost an adult and they're in like middle school that's probably either in 7th or 8th grade. Also this was a person online help please :')

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Mar 23, 2023 12:52 pm

@Yamichan: Yeah, if he comes back, just block him everywhere. That's not being mean, it's setting appropriate boundaries.

Mar 23, 2023 11:40 am

You have to be honest with the kiddo, Or else they wont really learn

Just tell you how there feeling, and move on (unless you wanna be friends or something)

Mar 23, 2023 11:39 am

this happened to me once with a friend I told them I only saw them as a friend, respectfully, although after I did they would always bring up how they wanted to make out with me..It made me super uncomfortable so I just decided to avoid them for a while after that and they moved so we dont rlly talk anymore

I think you should just tell them how u feel in a way that wont hurt their feelings yk

Mar 23, 2023 9:14 am

@Cicey_Kandiii: Alright I will thanks for the advice!

Mar 23, 2023 7:16 am

jumpscare :skull:

but yeah you could tell them about how that makes you uncomfortable and age differences like that you aren't comfortable with?

Mar 23, 2023 7:07 am
@Yamichan: Tysm! I'll take your advice :]
Mar 23, 2023 7:07 am

@holdmymilkbud: Tysm! I'll take your advice :]

Mar 23, 2023 4:27 am

Once a fifth grader did this to me (I’m wayy older than fifth grade), and I told them it’s inappropriate for those feelings to exist. Because, I’m older than them and I would just like to be friends. Although the person I’m talking about didn’t take it well, she chased me around with a lighter, they should take it fine. Or, if you have a S.O or something tell them you are already in a relationship, even if you aren’t you can say this anyways. shrug

Mar 23, 2023 3:47 am

Just say not interested. Don’t mind what they say because it’s ur choice

If this kid comes back and asks u why just dont repl