any adults on here??

Feellicks 3/14/2023 05:11 pm 815

hey yall I'm like 20 yo and I feel like finding other adults on here is like looking for a needle in a hay stack so like if ur not a minor maybe comment with ur interests and DNI stuff if u have any I guess ??

I'm not opposed to talking to and interacting with minors btw it's just kind of harder to relate to them sometimes.

DNI here bc I don't have a carrd

if you are a part of DD/LG or age play spaces DNI even if it's not NSFW I'm a CSA victim it's just a huge trigger for me and I'm not sure if I ever want to do exposure therapy 4 it k thnx

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ZetsubouVirus
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Apr 2, 2023 8:01 pm

im one of the adults here unfortunately

dootdooots
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Apr 2, 2023 6:39 pm

HaiiiIm 19, been on here for a year or something!!!!

I feel you dude, I think it just harder to relate to people who aren't really close in age. (since most who are active are 13-16.)

I like FNAF, Undertale, Welcome Home ARG, and other stuff like early 2000s nostalgia and what nots!!! alien I enjoy fashion and all kinds of arts n stuff!!!

DNI; just basic general DNI stuff, DD/LG stuff iis a big DNI for me too...

Perlerfan
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Apr 2, 2023 4:28 am

@Caitlynn: yes!
ha i

Lol it sounded like yes in Japanese for a sec

FictionalReality
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Apr 2, 2023 3:45 am

I'm turning 20 in two weeks lol. Sorry, my comment is kinda venty and mentions some mental health struggles because I just need to get it out of my brain, but don't worry I don't describe anything really other than how lonely I've been lmao

I came here originally because I was getting into kandi making as a little hobby to do with all of my free time after graduating high school because I'm too mentally ill to actually be employed. I didn't have a lot of room to explore styles and hobbies as a kid because I grew up in an unsupportive household and had major mental health issues that lead to lots of hazy days that I don't remember that I probably dissociated during.

I found that this community is actually very chill and is generally very accepting, with a lot of the members of this site having similar disorders to me, and are also queer. While I do see a lot of minors here, I also do tend to find adults from time to time. I don't really mind it though, because I tend to make friends with people who are a few years younger than me anyways, or are almost a decade older than me. There is no in between, and I think that's because of childhood trauma and not having many friends in my class. I either had to try to make friends in the younger grades because I was minorly mentally stunted, or basically 'befriend' a lot of my teachers because no one else would talk to me. I also was exposed to a lot of topics and media that was aimed towards an older audience at a young age, and ended up growing interests that seemed a bit to big for me at the time.

I'm sure that there are a lot more adults here than you think. I was originally just going to stay silent and use this site for just making patterns and finding cool ones that I liked, but I find that typing away at the keyboard and telling random people with similar interests and minds like mine things that have been festering for a while to be quite calming, and probably could help other people who might be on here that may feel alone in whatever they may be going through. I hope that whoever reads this has a good day and finds something that really makes them smile today

felixforsure
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Apr 1, 2023 9:25 pm

Hi I'm 20, turning 21 in October! I totally understand your struggle to find adults to interact with, so its nice to see posts like this :') I like games Splatoon, Tetris, and The Last of Us! I love fish, especially neon tetras ! I'm also an artist in art school to become a 3D animator and love drawing my original characters I'm also a huge fan of informative videos about random topics (one of my big interests right now is planes and ATC recordings!). Kandi is a smaller interest for me as of late, but I still enjoy it from time to time

DNI: Nothing that falls under basic DNI lists, I don't really like people who are overly pesimistic but I think thats most people

fairycake
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Apr 1, 2023 6:36 pm

@Perler_Fan: haii ^^

leotheseer
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Apr 1, 2023 12:48 pm

I'm 22, really into anime (love Madoka Magica), PJO, pop punk/punk rock music (i.e. a lot of FOB, ATL, and MCR), and chemistry. I have definitely felt the whole thing about there not being a lot of adults on this site, and I generally try not to talk to minors online.

I don't really have any set DNI conditions, but I also don't actively engage with the internet that often (I tend to just look around and I don't post a lot).

Perlerfan
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Apr 1, 2023 11:08 am

@Caitlynn: hi Caitlynn!

butch3rb1rd
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Apr 1, 2023 8:19 am

i’m 18! im interested in horror media and other strange things. i rarely list a dni because i just block people who i find weird, but generally it’s the basic dni criteria. i also prefer lgbtq+ exclusionists of any sort to not interact with me.