Any Trans people help

JustDennis 12/29/2022 06:39 pm 1116

so im trans masc and on my journey of two years of being openly trans but, As a trans masc is it okay to like girly stuff?.. someone i know asked why im so girly if i was a boy and to just stay female and i cant help to look at myself and thing should i just hide myself away but im not sure.. i feel very brave and strong and confidant knowing i can be male and im constantly hating the fact im in the wrong body but idk, i collect a ton of stuffies (squishmallows) that are high on color and i love that about myself that im a very colorful person who likes pink who loves art and stuffed toys but please i need help on this will i still be accepted as trans masc even if i like girl things and what not


ps: i say girly things because thats just the way i can explain it this means no offense


edit: AHH ty ty ty all!! this means so much to me to hear from other trans and non trans people i feel very supported and now my mind is at ease with myself tbh confetti thanks you all again

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Mar 27, 2023 7:08 am

as a twinkish trans guy who has a monster high doll collection and is currently wearing all pink, uhhhhhh it is NOT okay to be a girly trans man grrrrr /sarcw08

Mar 27, 2023 5:08 am

yes, i am a roseboy myself!! i love pink. pink is my fav!!

Mar 26, 2023 11:07 pm

i am transmasc but i am not going to give up my monster high dolls and skirts and stuff just because i'm a guy lol. that would be so boringmariocar

Mar 19, 2023 1:04 pm

DENNIS WHO TOLD YOU ACT GRILY angryangryangryangryangry

Mar 18, 2023 8:57 pm

personally interests and personality has nothing to do with your gender identity!! just bc you like "girly" or feminine stuff doesn't mean you cant be a boy/masc, it doesn't change who you are its just what you like tbh confetti

Mar 17, 2023 10:09 am

NO GRRR BE YOURSELF /nm /pos

you can be a trans boy and like "girly stuff" it doesnt mean you need to be a girl

you can be a trans girl and like "boyish" stuff it doesnt mean you need to be a boy

and so on

so in conclusion

you are beuatiful/handsome whoever you wanna be i think so at least,

be yourself : )

Mar 17, 2023 10:09 am

Not trans, but my BFF of 20+ years is and he loves Ponies, Barbies, shojo, etc. (Also Transformers.) I'm a cis dame and my current office motif is dinosaurs and little cars. Selling us culture for girls and boys is just marketing nonsense designed to make parents and kids insecure and easier to force into profitable roles. Like what you like and if anyone has a problem with it, that's their tough luck. You get to decide who you are.

Mar 17, 2023 9:57 am

Im very, very girly for a trans man. And that's ok!


You can like what you like. I don't catagioreize things in female or male. I think its stupid. If you like girly things as a guy, Awesome!! If you like guy things as a girl, Thats cool too! its what you like. Not others peoples! So be yourselfs!

Mar 17, 2023 9:51 am

yes!! I think its ok to like girly stuff if you are transmasc. I’m enby but J love pink and wear skirts and dresses and makeup rainbowsmile

Mar 8, 2023 2:22 pm

Think of it this way, would a cis man be any less of a man if he was feminine? No! It's the same for trans masc people or any trans people! The only thing that determines your gender is you and how you feel.