Need some advice

ninel 9/23/2022 01:02 pm 236

I found out yesterday that my crush likes one of my friends (his little sister had told me). Should I confess to him or keep my feelings to myself?

And if I do confess to him, should I help him win over her heart or not?

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Sep 23, 2022 1:50 pm

Maybe you can try and be closer to him, not in a like sibling/friends way but im like a , you both like eachother way? idk lol

Sep 23, 2022 1:22 pm

ive been in this exact situation twice!!! with the same person. i don't think helping him win her heart would be good, cuz that kinda stuff is often offputting? winning people's hearts. idk. butt if you guys generally go to each other for advice, do give him relationship advice as needed and show him that you care abt him and are there for him. not even bcs you have a crush on him, just like, if you're friends, that's a sweet friend thing to do.

"pouring your heart out to someone all at once can be really offputting. it sets an uneven emotional balance between you and the person you like, with them now knowing so much about you when you likely don't know nearly as much about them. it also sets future relationship expectations kinda high in an awkward way." -advice from the friend i like himself