highly considering quitting the forums /srs

junatehrobot 5/24/2022 01:02 pm 181

tbh im really considering ditching the "forum" bit of this site. there's just so, so much unnecessary drama and discourse on a site about BEADS. not to mention a crap ton of people being jerks for no reason. its just so stupid and dishearting.

if you wanna start discourse (about non-kandi related things), go to flipping twitter. no one wants that garbage here. :/

though for the people on here who are just vibing... sorry. i know you mean no harm. and for the kind people who've friended me, im sorry too.

im not totally quitting, im just *considering* quitting the forum but its gonna be hard.

/srs

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May 24, 2022 1:18 pm

i don't mind convos abt things ppl like or harmless things like that but there have been a lot of fighting and repetitive threads that really just shouldn't be on here

May 24, 2022 1:12 pm

@Shaggy2_Dogg: mhm :/

May 24, 2022 1:11 pm

I literally tried to post a light hearted thread about cartoons to at least get some wholesome convos started and just look at the state of the active threads

These kids need to stop thinking they're above everyone else and leave

When I first came on here the worst you would see is someone venting about something which would be pretty easy to ignore if you didn't want to see but now wtf. No one can go a day on here without trolling or tearing a group apart for something they cannot control

Kandi is supposed to be about PLUR and it is clear not a lot of people can do that.

  • 13Killz
May 24, 2022 1:09 pm

@junatehrobot: two ppl and they made it so i cant delete the messages

May 24, 2022 1:07 pm

@13Killz: people are actually telling you to do that???

i have no words...

May 24, 2022 1:06 pm

tbh same

like when one thread is popular a bunch of other users hop on the "kandipatterns thread bandwagon"

it's pretty tiring to deal with and just clutters the active threads sections with things that are all too similar

but yeah, probably leaving this site for at least the summer if i can

  • 13Killz
May 24, 2022 1:06 pm

yeah same im getting sick of ppl telling me to kms

May 24, 2022 1:05 pm

*inhales* well actually- /jk

for real tho yea people need to chill out and not be crapstacks to people like yea this is a bead site but it has so many not-ok people on it and they dont need all that angry/rude/mean crap in their lives

May 24, 2022 1:03 pm

agreed! honestly the next time i see discourse, im porb just gonna block n report whoever started it. i reccomend everyone else do that 2. good luck! kittsy