((tw:divorce)) I think my parents are getting divorced please help

itswhackadoodletime 4/30/2022 05:44 pm 344

does divorce need a tw?? Idk so I put one anyway

also brief mention of alcohol

Anyway yeah so I think my parents are getting divorced because they fight a lot and mom keeps looking up “divorce without a lawyer in (my state)” (we’re kinda poor and probably can’t afford a lawyer). Also one time when dad was drünk he told everyone in my family he was gonna divorce mom then he didn’t. So.

I’m really scared and I don’t know what to do. If they do get divorced I wouldn’t know who I would want to stay with most of the time because I’m afraid of both my mom and dad, but I’d want to stay with my brother and stay in my original house because that’s where my ducks are and they can’t move.

also I feel like this is kind of a punch in the face by karma because I joke abt how my parents should be divorced but aren’t T^T

does anyone have any advice??? Please help



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May 2, 2022 2:14 am

ive never been in your situation b4, but I recommend trying to see which parent would be most competent to care 4 u and give you at least the basics. if its so bad that ur in a dangerous situation u should probably find a way to leave

  • 13Killz
Apr 30, 2022 6:04 pm

@gaythoughtsheadfull: well i would tell dhs abt the situation if its that bad

Apr 30, 2022 5:54 pm

@13Killz: the problem isn’t that I would miss the other, it’s me trying to evaluate which one would be less dangerous to live with

  • 13Killz
Apr 30, 2022 5:51 pm

dont worry the amount of time u spend with each can be =