Picking an aesthetic is hard! Help!!

Garnet_Is_Sad 3/29/2022 09:27 am 342

So basically… this thread is just me being a drama king over my aesthetic- but srsly please help me TwT

So is it a thing to have like three aesthetics lol? I can decide if I should be more kidcore, scenecore, or like pastel-ish. Is there such a thing where all of those are combined lol?? Please give me advice !

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Mar 29, 2022 9:57 pm

have as many aesthetics as you want !!! mix and match them, or wear certain aesthetic outfits every day !!! i have a mix of like grunge, punk, goth (starting or at least trying to), 80s, kidcore, and kandi kid all mixed into one !!! have as many as you want :]

Mar 29, 2022 6:15 pm

you could have a variety of aesthetics or make ur own combined aesthetic of this


i have a variety of aesthetics too. my favourites are y2k, fairygrunge, dark academia, indie, grunge, cottagecore, etc

Mar 29, 2022 5:54 pm

honestly lifez 2 short 2 worry abt that sorta stuff lol just do wut makes u happy hahah

Mar 29, 2022 5:51 pm

do all three!!love

Mar 29, 2022 2:04 pm

@n3onw0rmi: that’s a good idea thank you!

Mar 29, 2022 9:59 am

I don’t have a set aesthetic I just find something I like and wear it

Mar 29, 2022 9:45 am

what dani said!! my style is a mix of scene, grunge, kidcore, decora, and 80s!! what I recommend doing to figure out what you’re most comfortable with is rather than sticking with one for right now, wear a different one daily/multiple times a week! slowly your style will start to develop and become your own as you figure out what feels right! for example, one day wear some pastels, and the next day wear kidcore! or mix them together! try not to stress about it too much, it’ll come to you with time big grin

Mar 29, 2022 9:44 am

@Garnet_Is_Sad: You're welcome! And thanks!

Mar 29, 2022 9:39 am

@whoa_its_dani: Aw Tysm! I love your pfp btw

Mar 29, 2022 9:36 am

You can certainly have more than one "aesthetic", or even one all your own that combines elements from other aesthetics. Don't focus on how your aesthetic looks per se, just focus on whether it makes you happy and reflects how you feel you are. You "should be" whoever you want to be. Experiment! Cycle through different aesthetics! You can wear different themed outfits on different days, or have different sections of your room dedicated to different aesthetics.

One thing I hate about the internet is how it's pushed people to settle or conform to "aesthetics". You don't have to! In fact, focusing on labels and what fits under which one can be very harmful and confusing! Just wear what you like, do what you like, and be who YOU like. Best of luck!