HELP!How to tell a friend that you need to stop talking to them because its toxic friendship

2coolforschool 2/21/2022 05:50 pm 277

I need to stop talking to a friend of mine because he keeps flirting with me and then blames it on me. His girlfriend keeps telling me to stop flirting with him and I tell her the truth but she doesn't believe me for some reason. I decided not to be friends with him anymore. I feel too bad to tell him but, I don't like him and I told his girlfriend what I can do to prove it to her and she says nothing but, I ran out of things to do and I'm so close to ignoring him when he lightens my day a little more. His girlfriend actually hates me and that the most important reason why I need to stop talking to him because of my safety but I don't think he would understand and then tell his girlfriend. It's at the point were I'm secretly texting him on another app that I'm not used to texting on. Any advice???kao sadkao cry

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Feb 21, 2022 8:08 pm

@V4MP1RE_GUTZZ: tell them why i wouldn't want to continue being friends?? Duh? and then after their response just. stop talking. not hard lmao

Feb 21, 2022 8:07 pm

i've had to drop a toxic friend before, although not for the same reasons.

i just sat him down and said, "i dont think we should be friends anymore because of x, y, and z. its not fair to either of us. to me because im exhausting myself, and you because you dont deserve a fake friend, ect." change/add what you need

Feb 21, 2022 7:24 pm

@V4MP1RE_GUTZZ: thank you happy I'm gonna do it tomarrow I apprecaite it!!!

Feb 21, 2022 7:08 pm
@cricketGreen: then what would u do lmao
Feb 21, 2022 7:08 pm

literally jus drop him

dont b friends w sumbody like that u alr tried handling the situation by telling his gf, she doesnt believe u n its obvious hes not gonna stop, its not worth havin sum dumb like that escalate

  • CoNN13Killz
Feb 21, 2022 6:17 pm

@cricketGreen: i mean fair but if they dont have the spine to tell him i cant think of any other way

Feb 21, 2022 6:09 pm

@CoNN13Killz: do not take this persons advice, do not ghost someone, terrible way to handle a situation

  • CoNN13Killz
Feb 21, 2022 5:54 pm

just ghost him