...is that owl a keytopper?
(if so, i win at guessing, if not, whatever then)

O.o I dont think you need to rave to call it kandi I dnt rave and thats wat I call it cuz idk theres just a difference to me between bracelets and kandi. people shouldnt GAF bout what others say (which they never do to me and if they do then forget them or just a good old punch in the,face lol

I completely understand where Monarch's coming from, because I used to feel the exact same way. It used to really annoy me when non ravers would call it kandi! 

But over time I've stopped caring... partly because I do think there's a difference between bracelets and kandi, and also because many of the non-raver kandi kids I've talked to seem to be more PLUR than some ravers! As well as being a token of friendship amongst people at raves, to me kandi also represents PLUR (I like pretending PLUR exists) and you can be PLUR without stepping foot in a rave. 

Also... normally, people who trade/wear kandi but don't rave do so because they're too young to rave or can't rave for some other reason. I think it's best for them to enjoy kandi now and join the scene later, rather than start raving when they're too young, or when they could get in trouble.

Just my thoughts... I don't mean to take sides because I've held both beliefs, but the being okay with kandi one requires more explanation.... And Monarch is completely right about how non-raving kandi wearers get picked on, so even though some people may be okay with it, be careful!

(I wrote this all from my phone D: )

yeah. claiming to be a raver when you're not... that's lame. and it's not like a raver is something they should aspire to be, lol.

Trade?